ABOUT THIS VIDEO: I don't agree with the quote in the thumbnail for this video. I believe we CAN change the truth. Let me show you how.
If you steal things, and then you overhear someone calling you a thief, you have no right to get mad at them. They're just speaking the truth. However, if you reform yourself and no longer steal, then people won't be able to say that about you anymore. (I mean, some people might because they are the type who can't or won't let go of your past mistakes; they won't forgive and move on. There isn't much you can do about that but shrug your shoulders and move on.)
Sometimes we might do things that, if they are communicated to others, don't show us to have very good character. However, if you want to change that, then maybe you could try NOT doing those unflattering things.
Imagine this: I have a conversation with Jim Smith, during which he takes a cheap shot at me, saying I am a worthless father. Then I share his remark in a video. Days later, Jim Smith texts me, and he is mad that I shared what he said, telling me it made him "look bad."
But...all I did was share what he REALLY said. If he is worried that saying things like that makes him look bad, then maybe he should stop saying those things.